Monday, March 24, 2014

What is love without sacrificing?

What is love without sacrificing?  Love without sacrificing is failure.  While loving one another one must realize the ability to give and take is what keeps the fire burning in your relationship.  We cannot become over burdened in trying to do it all by ourselves.  When we try to love each other, but spend more time doing everything without each other. We lose the concept of togetherness which is what love is all about.


What is love without sacrificing?  Love without sacrificing is an accident waiting to happen. We often times get so wrapped up in doing our own thing that we forget to do the things that really matter. We must learn to hold each other accountable and set goals.  Give each other friendly deadlines and make commitments to each other. Ex: We are going to the movies Friday! Oh, sorry babe I can't go. I must go to do my nails! How about you do your nails tomorrow,  since today is the only day we both have together to spend quality time alone. Okay, you're right. I didn't think of that. Two heads are better than one. Communicate with each other.

Making a sacrifice will help you more than it will hurt.  Every relationship needs love and sacrifices to be made in order for it to work, so when asked: what is love without sacrificing?  Say" a heart full of hurt and disappointment".

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

You're not in love. You're in love with the thought of being in love!

Love is a good feeling. Love is what love does. When you're Asking yourself if you really love this person.  It usually means you don't.  Loving someone is to love them even when they're not doing things your way. If the love you have for a person is questionable every time they say" no" then it's not love you're in. If you love someone that continuously hurts you. It's not love that you're in. Ex: he/she cheats on me with other people, but I can't leave him/her because they cook, financially support,  and caters to me.

It's not love that you're in. Sounds like you're in love with the thought of being in love. A person who loves you will not cheat on you, or do things to jeopardize your feelings or relationship.  If you're more concerned with losing what A person does for you rather than how they treat you Then it's not love that you're in. You're in love with the thought of being in love. The love you have for somebody,  or that they have for you should not be measured by what they do for you. It should be measured by how they make you feel.

If a person is abusing, using, cheating and disrespectful to you but they continue to pay your bills. Do you consider that love? Love hides all those flaws, because you want to be in it.  Love is a good feeling.  If it's hurting you more than it's helping you. Then it's not love that you're in. You're in love with the thought of being in love.