Tuesday, March 11, 2014

You're not in love. You're in love with the thought of being in love!

Love is a good feeling. Love is what love does. When you're Asking yourself if you really love this person.  It usually means you don't.  Loving someone is to love them even when they're not doing things your way. If the love you have for a person is questionable every time they say" no" then it's not love you're in. If you love someone that continuously hurts you. It's not love that you're in. Ex: he/she cheats on me with other people, but I can't leave him/her because they cook, financially support,  and caters to me.

It's not love that you're in. Sounds like you're in love with the thought of being in love. A person who loves you will not cheat on you, or do things to jeopardize your feelings or relationship.  If you're more concerned with losing what A person does for you rather than how they treat you Then it's not love that you're in. You're in love with the thought of being in love. The love you have for somebody,  or that they have for you should not be measured by what they do for you. It should be measured by how they make you feel.

If a person is abusing, using, cheating and disrespectful to you but they continue to pay your bills. Do you consider that love? Love hides all those flaws, because you want to be in it.  Love is a good feeling.  If it's hurting you more than it's helping you. Then it's not love that you're in. You're in love with the thought of being in love.

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